I HAVE NO APOLOGIES. I call myself DUB (Da Urlee Byrd) for a reason. Not cuz I be up early, but cuz I be up on it early. By it I am referring to The Game.
I know what you're thinking...is this bitch crazy? Well, yes. Yes I am. With that said, I invite you to open your minds, and not your legs, to my opinions on this open ended topic...CHEATING.
Like many of the topics I write about, I am not an advocate for, promoting, or condoning this behavior. Nevertheless, I've watched the best ppl turn evil and the strongest go weak from lack of knowledge. You see, we all know alot of ppl cheat. It's a fact, will never change, deal w/it. It aint right, but I'm not talking about what is right. This is about what IS.
I have been the cheater, the cheatee, and both at the same time. I write from experience.
Cheating has ripped apart families, ruined great reputations, lead to violence (in some cases deaths) and the list goes on. Hell you might as well look at cheating like its AIDS or poverty. This is also a fact.
Cheating is a 2 way street, everyone loses. Even for the most pimpin ass purple donned player, successful cheating only works if both are working it. Same goes for being cheated on; can't get cheated on by urself, someone has to cheat on you.
No matter what, more than one person loses something. The cheater loses one more ounce of freedom, having to always check the phone, staying on top of the lies, basically splitting the part of his/herself already given to one person in half to share w/another. The cheatee loses his/her mind lol. Let's be real.
Now once again, I'm not for cheating. I don't want you going to sleep re-evaluating who you're with cuz now there's a bootleg guide for how to get down. If you love the one you're with, and you have absolutely no reason to doubt that person, stop reading here. It's like carrying umbrellas in the desert. What you worried bout?
From every intuition comes information, understand that. Women believe they are born w/it, men call it instinct, gut feeling, 1st mind, 3rd eye, whatever. As humans we are given the natural power to be in touch with truth without any evidence. With this knowledge we have a choice, act on it, or leave it alone. And that simple decision is where this blog comes in.
I am opening this blog as a discussion, also, due to the fact it happens so much. Many of you will be angered w/me, some surprised, and others in full agreement. As long as there are open opinions, we can take steps closer to finding the social medium.
I conclude this introduction saying this. Karma is real. Whatever you do will come back to in unexpected forms.
For those who decide to cheat, know you are hurting someone else, thus hurting yourself. Even if you don't get caught, the universe has taken your order for destruction and trust your food's coming soon.
For those cheated on, know you have been hurt, and tears of a broken heart waters the soil of the soul. (Damn that was smooth, yea I just made that up). You are already stronger just by surviving the wrong done to you, and you DID NOT DESERVE IT. But if you choose not to learn from it, sorry for ya! Futures aren't bright for people who keep running back to the past.
SO, here it goes. I wish all of you the best of luck in love, but it's hard for me to sit by and watch the same mistakes made by me, and my close ppl. You woke up in a shit pile, cheater or cheatee, I just wanna help you get a little cleaner. Ready?
Stay tuned...
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