(Re-posted from Facebook)
Ok. Whew.
I dunno. I just don't know. But I do feel like this.
Black women: Don't complain bout brothas having relationships with white women cuz most of ya'll find no shame in a Black woman dating a white guy. I hear ya'll in the salons. Alot of ya'll also refer to "these niggas" as not "being shit" alot too.
Black men: Don't be talking about you've tried and just can't seem to find a Black woman who supports you. You happen to find a white girl you're into, that's cool. But your reasons reflect you as a person. If your true preference is a Black woman then you man up and spend time finding the right Black woman. Now if your true preference is open, then be about that. But trust it's good Black women out there, so if you're going to date outside your race, don't use that as a reason.
I don't care. I feel Black people have a long way to go before demanding who the next one can date. We need to work on ourselves so we can shine our natural light and attract each other. True love has no color, that's just how it is. But what we can change is how we love ourselves thus changing how others view loving us. Black people, that is.
Peace
What really irritates me, is when Black men deny their attraction to white women and try to distance themselves from the girl when I walk by. I hate when men front on their women in general, but don't be ashamed! If that's your choice, man up and claim it! As for dating outside the beauty that is Blackness, I'm pretty open-minded. I mean, God made us all and as much as I love Black men, I'm not going to limit myself and the possibilities that could be there for me to find in non-Black lovelies...I'm just sayin' u gotta live life to the fullest and not just do what everybody else thinks we should do as a people.
ReplyDeleteI'm feelin that SweetiLocks!
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